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I have loved things Country and Western all of my life. I have loved the ranches and farms, the work, the fields, the barns, livestock, and the food. I was born and raised in Kentucky where I learned to ride and care for horses. Most of my family lived on farms and/or were livestock producers. I have raised various livestock and poultry over the years.I have sold livestock feed and minerals in two states. My big hats and boots are only an outward manifestation of the country life I hold dear to my heart. With the help of rhyme or short story, in recipes or photos, I make an effort in this blog to put into words my day to day observations of all things rural; the things that I see and hear, from under my hat. All poems and short stories, unless noted otherwise, are authored by me. I hope you enjoy following along.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Rockin' Chairs




In the early 1700’s someone took a long  look at a chair, and wondered how to remake it so it would rock back and forth, but remain stable and upright at the same time. The first rocking chairs were born from regular chairs with bowed skis placed on the bottom. After that, the chairs began to be refined and built just for rocking and comfort. Some credit old Ben Franklin with the invention, but historians think the chairs were probably around when he was a young man.


It may have been a sleepless mother or father of a new infant, who could see the advantages of a chair that gently moved back and forth in a swaying motion of comfort. Many folks enjoy kicking a chair back on its hind legs and sitting that way; as long as the chair doesn’t slip or the legs break . Whatever the inspiration, I’m grateful for the invention. There’s nothing like a rocker.

A rocking chair just symbolizes calm to me. It beckons you to come sit and take a load off your feet… and your mind. There is Rocking Chair Therapy for convalescents, and for people with diseases that cause the urge for repetitive motion. The motion of rocking has proven to aid digestion, and keep muscles and tendons flexible in the elderly. Songs have been written about these moving chairs; Old Rockin’ Chair and Rockin’ Chair Blues for instance. I had a friend who would refer to men, that he didn't think worked as hard as they should, as "being in the rocking chair" ; making movements, but never really going anywhere.

Whatever your personal likes about a rocker, everyone agrees that it is relaxing. Cracker Barrel, and a few other restaurants, found that having rocking chairs on the porch and in the waiting areas didn’t only make the place look folksy and welcoming; they soothed weary drivers and impatient folks waiting to get a table. Executive offices often have desk chairs that rock; a tension reliever for sure. People just feel compelled to sit and rock when they see these chairs, especially old wooden ones. We Americans love rockers. Patty and I have four rockers at home.

Our back porch has two rockers adorning it. Patty and I love to sit in these chairs and take in the sight and smell of the blossoming fruit trees in the spring and the flower beds in summer. We sit in these comfortable seats to break beans and shuck corn after the harvest, or to pick walnuts or pecans. We sit in them a lot at the end of each day and talk. Our joys, fears, sorrows and even disagreements are often expressed from the comfort of these rockers. Yes we love to sit there and talk. And sometimes, well… we just sit.


 I love to watch the fading sun lower on the western horizon from my rocker, and feel the quiet of  evening settle the business of the day.We love our outside rockers. We have inside rocking chairs too.

One old chair belonged to my great-great-aunt. She and her husband owned a furniture store in the early 1900’s. I’m guessing that this ornate oak piece was one they purchased way back then.Anyway, it has a bit of history with it. My aunt was sitting in this particular rocker when someone tried to kill her. A shot was fired through the window at her; the bullet hit the Bible in her hand at an angle, and deflected to the next chair. The deflected bullet killed her husband, my great-great-uncle. A cousin went to prison for the murder; but most folks believed it was his girlfriend (who my aunt vehemently disapproved of) that actually pulled the trigger.

My aunts' old chair is nearly as sturdy as the day it was built. We have it in our living room facing the fireplace. Sometimes I sit in it just to feel the same wood, the same comfort of that old chair that my ancestors felt nearly 100 years ago. And it does seem to be a lucky chair to sit in after all.

The fourth rocker at our house is an old oak rocker that I received as a gift from Patty not long ago. I wrote about it a little in the blog titled “Mark Twain Christmas Walk”. I found it in a Hannibal, Missouri antique store. The chair reminded me so much of the rocking chair that my Great Grandma Armstrong had in her room, and sat in so much of the time. The last time I visited with her she was sitting in that old rocker, laughing and talking.  I resisted buying the 'Mark Twain' piece, but my wife knew how much I wanted it, and arranged to have it purchased for me for Christmas. It's a grand old piece of sitting furniture, and I often wonder what stories that old chair could tell.

It is a love affair that I have with old rockers. When I think of the books read while sitting in them,  or the stories told from them, I know that rockers creak through many miles in their  lifetimes . 


 I think of the fretful babies quieted, the songs softly sung, letters from overseas anxiously read, and the evening hours spent reflecting, in a wooden chair that  moves peaceably back and forth. Like an old boat riding the waves of time, an old rocking chair gently moves generations of folks through a lifetime of memories. Kids love them, old folks love them, and I think we all need them... to help bring a little piece of mind to ourselves now and again.

This piece of Americana is a wonderful addition to any house that becomes a home. A house without a rocker seems to me to have an empty space, a void inside it. To me, an old rockin' chair is just, well, part of the family.

If you’re ever by the Chicken Ranch, drop in. Pattys’s a great hostess and the chickens are friendly. If you drop by some evening, there’s a mighty good chance I’ll be on the back porch, just sittin' in my chair, lookin' out over the flowers to the West…rockin’.


My Great Great Aunt Noras' Rocker                                                                                                                                                  My " Mark Twain" rocker

    
          


 

Monday, April 1, 2013

Happy Anniversary

I re-post this poem each year on our wedding anniversary. Happy 39th, Patty




I have not forgotten, the first time I saw you

As you glided into your chair

How your smile overtook the lighted room

And your eyes seized all the air



I have not forgotten, when I held your hand

And felt the spark of your fingertips

Or the dizzying taste of sparkling wine

In the kiss that fell from your lips



I have not forgotten, how you looked

When day gave in to night

And the moon lay soft upon your skin

While your eyes reflected its light



I have not forgotten, promises we made

Or the tests we faced time and again

When storms, we oft brought on ourselves

Sought fiercely to bring us to an end



I have not forgotten, the love that bound

While other ties were broken

When the words “I’m sorry, and I love you still”

Were real when they were spoken



I have not forgotten, how you stood

For all you believed was right

Or the comforting touch of your gentle hand

On mine, through life’s uncertain night

 

No, I have not forgotten, I should not forget

And certain sure, I never will

For all that caused me to love you then

Does cause me to love you still

Kevin Dennie

Happy Anniversary, Patty Gooding .







I love you Babe, Kevin